Faith Tips for Parents: Worship
Family Meals and Conversations
Many adults grew up in homes where the family gathered almost every day for breakfast and dinner and sometimes lunch. Today 67% of American families with children eat at least five meals together in a week. Five meals may not be much compared to the Leave It To Beaver generation, but at least it’s a place to start!
Benefits of Sharing A Family Meal Together
o Allows you to touch base with each other in a relaxed setting
o Creates a familiar routine to build community within the family
o Allows you to enjoy each other’s company
o Fosters a child’s self esteem and values of gratitude & concern
o Teaches fundamental social skills, including polite manners, teamwork, and the art of conversation
o Helps children develop a sense of independence by providing a regular forum for asserting opinions, especially on family matters
o Tend to fix and eat healthier food rather than eating out which is expensive
Suggestions for the Family Meal
¨ Plan the menu together
¨ When possible, let all family members help prepare the meal
¨ Use symbols: candles remind us of Christ’s presence, an empty chair represents hospitality for an unexpected guest, a 2 cents-a-meal collection container helps to remember those who do not have enough to eat, table decorations remind us of the liturgical season
¨ Turn off the TV and other distractions
¨ Invite a friend to join you from time to time; be proud of your family meals together
¨ Wait until everyone is seated to begin the blessing.
¨ Table blessings may include taking turns saying the blessing, a round robin thanksgiving, holding hands for grace, selecting a table blessing from a box of prayers on the table.
¨ Make conversation the main feature of the meal
¨ Let everyone help with clean up.
¨ Once a week set aside time for an extended family activity afterward.
Suggestions for Conversation Starters
- Share high and low points of the day or week, a spiritual practice called examen.
- At least once a week feed your souls as well as your bodies. Read a Bible verse and short devotion (this could be These Days or a Children’s Devotion Book) to start the meal and talk about it as you eat together. Make connections to your daily lives.
- Play the compliment game. Each person has to offer a sincere compliment to another family member.
- Use Table Talk placemats. These can be ordered from www.pcusa.org/marketplace
- Share a topic from the news and discuss how faith affects how we act or how we should act
- Use conversation cards as starters. Place them in a basket and ask family members to choose at random. Family members can add new cards and ideas. Nancy can email a set to you to get you started.
- Discuss Sunday school lessons or this week’s sermon
- Ask everyone to share a joke or funny story one night
- Play the storytelling game: one person tells a story about him or herself and the rest have to guess if it really happened or is a tall tale.
Suggestions for Weekly Family Night Activities
· Play a board game
· Card games like Spoons or Dominos.
· Work on a puzzle together
· Do a project together (model plane, crafts, etc.)
· Read a classic chapter book from the public library
· Watch a movie together and discuss Christian themes in it
· Share a formal devotion time. Use resources such as: The Children’s Mission Yearbook (www.pcusa.org/marketplace) or one of the family devotion books found in our church library
· Have a weekly family meeting to go over the calendar, bring up perceived problems, honor accomplishments, discuss future plans, give out allowances, etc.
May Events
Luau Picnic Cookout
Sunday May 3, 12:00 PM
Hamburgers and Hot Dogs, outside Fellowship Hall Bring your lawn chairs!
Inquirers Class Series
Sunday 9:45 am Room 19 April 26 and May 3
Sunday evening 7:00 pm dinner at Pastor Gabe’s
Annual Women’s Luncheon Saturday May 9, 12 Noon
Selva Marina Country Club Tickets $15, available in the church office
Entertainment and a Guest Speaker
Sunday School
On May 24th, we will have Preschool Sunday School, all other children and Youth Sunday School Classes are cancelled. On May 31st all elementary Students will meet together in Rm. #11 for a Pentecost kite celebration. Adults and youth are invited to the Sanctuary during the Sunday School Hour for a special presentation on Mission in Dominican Republic sponsored by our Living Waters Team.
Graduating High School Seniors Sunday
Sunday May 17
Seniors will be recognized at a special 6 PM worship service.
Church Retreat May 22-24
Green Acres: Sowing the Seeds of Faith
Join us at Montgomery Conference Center for our annual weekend retreat of fun, fellowship, and spiritual renewal. Sign ups begin April 12, and will fill up fast. Please bring your checkbook to pay for your registration or at least a deposit to reserve a cabin.
Upcoming Events
Vacation Bible School June 22-26
Aqua de Vida: Waters of Life
We will explore how God uses water as an agent of creation, salvation, healing, blessing, and health. Priority Registration for church members and CPPK continues. Open registration for remaining spaces begins May 18 so get your children registered today! $10 registration fee per child appreciated.
Vacation Bible School Volunteers Needed!
We need ~ 70 volunteers in VBS each year. Your assistance is greatly appreciated by 175 joyful children!
Summer Camps at Montgomery
June 14 –19 or other times
We are calling June 14-19 Community Presbyterian Week at Camp Montgomery! Camps for elementary—middle school are available that week, so please register your child early at www.montgomerycenter.org.
Middle School Youth will have a $50 scholarship from youth auction funds paid for by the church. Plenty of other camps are also available all summer long!
Senior High Mission Trip to Miami, FL
July 12th-18th
The Senior High will journey to Miami and spend a week working with the Homeless
through the DOOR Network. Trip could include Miami Aquarium, Beach or a Florida Marlins Game?
Middle & High School Water Days
Wednesdays 8am - 3pm
June 10, July 8, July 22, August 5 , August 12 Save the Date. |